Sometimes it is important to remember that we all have different points of view. Some seem great while others look better/worse. Just try and put yourself in the other person’s shoes before going too far.
I love my kids more than I ever thought possible. Once and awhile everything fits together nicely and you feel like you everything is in balance. Most days however there is a constant multi-dimensional game of tug of war going on with both parents over how to do x, y, and z with the kids.